To Vibrate or Not to Vibrate, That is the Question 

Last night.. ok, the last few days have been torture. Being single can suck. I mean, no one to kiss or just touch you in that way that give you goose bumps. And no one to cuddle with when you just want to be the little spoon. (If you haven’t read Sex On the Beach then please start there to have a better understanding of this post.)

Did you know that a woman can have an orgasm just by thinking about it? Well, I’m not that talented. Given the fact that I am a virgin, I just get extremely turned on by thinking about my past encounters. The more I think about it, the closer I get to my peak. However, I can’t quite get there.

So I usually will masturbate on my own. For the first time ever, I actually fingered myself this week. It didn’t do anything for me. Normally, I stay on the outside. But I have always been curious about penetration and vibrators. I have used one on the outside but never like a dildo or anything like that.

I’m laying there in bed last night and all I could think about is how much I just wanted to get off really quickly without all the work…. I sound like a guy haha.

Just give me a quickie babe.

It’s 11 pm and I rolled over and Googled “best vibrators for virgins”. I don’t want anything crazy or huge! I don’t want it to hurt! Let me just say that Reddit users, wow. You had some amazing advice. Amazon was the solution. The “health and care” section and searching vibrators, make sure you click that you are an adult to see everything!

Tomorrow I will get 1 of 3 purchases. That’s right three. A vibrator, one for my clitoris, and a “bunny” (one that goes for both). Can I just say that the anticipation has me on edge and ready to just jump out of my skin!!

So in case you were wondering if virgins liked to be turned on or ever have had orgasms, the answer is most likely yes. Not all of us are extreme prudes but not all of us will go down on you either. We all have different boundaries and reasons as to why we are holding out.



8 thoughts on “To Vibrate or Not to Vibrate, That is the Question 

  1. How exciting, hope it all goes well with your new toys!

    Just wanted to say that Amazon has a bit of reputation for being a bit dodgy in regards to sex toys. If you want to buy a specifically branded toy, like something from lelo or we-vibe or whatever, it’s probably best to buy from a legit adult retailer. I highly recommend Lovehoney 🙂

    Have fun!


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